Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Another Time and Place

I've decided something.

If I could live anywhere, at any time, I would live in England when Jane Austen did.
Anne Hathaway as Jane Austen
The past couple of weeks have reaffirmed this to me as I've been rereading my favorite book, Pride and Prejudice, as well as watching Emma (just as a side note, Mr. Knightley really is the perfect man!) and many other of "those type" of movies.

There is something so beautiful about the way they talk and how they express themselves.  I would love to go to dinner parties often and have balls with structured dances that everyone knows.  Although, I'll admit I probably would have had a difficult time, like Austen did, because my independent personality would not go over well with society.

Still, as I become enthralled again with the world the Elizabeth, Emma, and Elinor lived in, I want it for my own.  

Often I feel cheesy when my response to the inquiry of my favorite book is Pride and Prejudice.  It's a classic and one that most people would expect all girls to like.  Which naturally makes me want to change my answer because I despise being what people stereotype me to be.  But I can't help it.  It is my favorite.  I love the language, syntax, and even the punctuation.  I love the romance and the passion.  I love that Elizabeth is so headstrong and stupid, actions that are unfortunately not foreign to me. 
I also love the comedy in it.  I think I might start a collection of some of my favorite lines.  My new favorite conversation is one between Elizabeth and her aunt Mrs. Gardiner as they are discussing the deteriorated relationship between Jane and Bingley.  

Elizabeth: "It does not often happen that the interference of friends will persuade a young man of independent fortune to think no more of a girl whom he was violently in love with only a few days before."
Mrs. Gardiner: "But that expression of 'violently in love' is so hackneyed, so doubtful, so indefinite, that it gives me very little idea.  It is often applied to feelings which arise only from a half hour's acquaintance as to a real, strong attachment.  Pray, how violent was Mr. Bingley's love?"
Elizabeth: I never saw a more promising inclination; he was growing quite inattentive to other people, and wholly engrossed by her.  Every time they met, it was more decided and remarkable.  At his own ball he offended two or three young ladies by not asking them to dance; and I spoke to him twice myself without receiving an answer.  Could there be finer symptoms?  Is not general incivility the very essence of love?"
Mrs. Gardiner: "Oh yes! of that kind of love which I suppose him to have felt."

"Is not general incivility the very essence of love?"  Cracks me up every time.  So clever.  And true.

Someday perhaps I will have acquired the amount of wisdom necessary to write such classics as Jane Austen.  Until then, I guess I'll have to be satisfied with my tradition of immersing myself in her world every summer. 

All this talking about it makes me want to watch the movie.  Good thing it's summer and I can go home and do just that!

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Missions

I have a love-hate relationships with missions.

I love them because I know of the good they do for everyone involved.  They bring incredible growth to the missionary, those they serve, their loved ones supporting at home, and the church at large.  But I kind of hate that they take my friends and family away from me for 18 or 24 months.

So much can and does change in that amount of time.  In some ways, the time flies by and in others, it takes forever.

On the bright side, I love getting letters.


While I am grateful for email and other technology, there is something so special about getting a real, handwritten letter in the mailbox. 

Since missionaries are not to email people other than their families, I'm even more grateful for letters so that I can still feel connected to my friends and the people I love.

Tomorrow, Britny goes into the MTC.  I love Britny and am so proud of her decision to serve a mission.  I can't wait to add her to my list of loved ones serving the Lord.  She is going to be an incredible missionary.  I can't wait to hear all of her life changing experiences.  And I am excited for her to get to go back to the New York she loves so well!
Kate, Jess, Alicia, Britny, Me, and Haley at our Farewell lunch
On Thursday, Bryson comes home.  He's really the first friend of mine to come home.  It's crazy!  To be honest, I have mixed feelings about the whole thing.  I am excited to see him, but I know that so much has changed that I am not sure that the person I am now is even recognizable in comparison to the person I was when he left.  I knew when we graduated high school that nothing would ever be the same again, but it is all really hitting me now.  But, I wouldn't want things to stay the same either.  I'm happy with who I've become.  I just want to be able to celebrate the homecoming of my friends without the changes getting in the way.  
Bryson Scott
I'm sure everything will work out just fine.  I worry way too much sometimes.  So for now, I think I'll just focus on the excitement.

Wedding!

Jessica and Zach got married on Friday.  It was beautiful, fun, and totally them!
Me, Jess, and Anne

Zach, Me, Jess, and Anne

Jessica looked absolutely gorgeous and Zach couldn't have been happier.  The luncheon was great and made me cry more than once.  But it also made me laugh super hard.  You could see the love they have for each other and I don't think I've seen a happier couple. These two are both just so much fun to be around and they are going to have the most amazing adventures in their lives!  I'm so excited for these two!

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Connor Joseph

Saturday, June 30 at 2:10 am Amy and Spencer's fourth child was born:  Connor Joseph, weighing in at 6 lbs. 10 oz. and 20 inches long.
His poor little bruised head! Don't worry, it looks much worse in pictures than real life.
A few hours after he was born, Connor was taken to the NICU because he was having troubles keeping his oxygen and blood sugar levels up.  Luckily he only had to be there for a few days and got the all clear to come home today!

Sunday was Amy's birthday, so I went to Centerville and after dinner, we loaded up the cars with family, cake, and presents and went to celebrate with her in her room at the hospital.  It was more than slightly insane to have so many people and little kids in the room, but it was fun.
Amy's traditional birthday cake

This time it was double decker with strawberries in the middle
My attempt at getting Daxton to hold still...it didn't work

The cute birthday girl!

Amy looked so good and happy, especially after just having given birth a little over 24 hours beforehand.  Seriously, she is a rock star.  And one heck of a mother.  Blows me away all the time.

After the party, we got to go, in small groups, down to the NICU to see and hold baby Connor.  
Amy and Connor

Me holding Connor!
Man, I love babies!  He's so tiny (even if he was almost a whole pound bigger than the rest of Amy's babies) and sweet, with the cutest little blonde hair.  I loved getting to hold him.  As not fun as having a baby in the NICU is, it is something really special to be down there.  There is just such an amazing peace, stillness, and love there.  (I really do think you should be a neonatal nurse, Leesh.  It'd be such an amazing place to work).  I've heard that angels walk the halls at Primary Children's Hospital, but I think they walk the halls of every NICU, too.  

Congratulations Spencer, Amy, Abby, Lyla, and Max on your newest addition!  I love you all!
(P.S. I have a picture of Shannon with Connor too, but couldn't get it to rotate. So sorry, Shan!)